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	<description>Inspiring others to go beyond their perspectives</description>
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		<title>By: Chukwuma John</title>
		<link>http://hilife2b.com/blog/construct-ideal-personality/comment-page-1#comment-572</link>
		<dc:creator>Chukwuma John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 04:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Changes sometimes feels too &quot;real&quot; for some people. &quot;Can I really do that?&quot; they think. What they should be thinking is &quot;Hey, I can do that!&quot; and put the effort in to bring the change. Very nice input, Ken.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Changes sometimes feels too &#8220;real&#8221; for some people. &#8220;Can I really do that?&#8221; they think. What they should be thinking is &#8220;Hey, I can do that!&#8221; and put the effort in to bring the change. Very nice input, Ken.</p>
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		<title>By: Ken Kurosawa &#124; Wasabi Burger</title>
		<link>http://hilife2b.com/blog/construct-ideal-personality/comment-page-1#comment-567</link>
		<dc:creator>Ken Kurosawa &#124; Wasabi Burger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Applying what we&#039;ve learned is definitely the most difficult part of life.  Especially when one is used to a certain way of doing things.  But by putting the effort in and constantly reminding yourself, great changes are a comin&#039;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Applying what we&#8217;ve learned is definitely the most difficult part of life.  Especially when one is used to a certain way of doing things.  But by putting the effort in and constantly reminding yourself, great changes are a comin&#8217;</p>
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		<title>By: Chukwuma John</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chukwuma John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Bakari Nice thoughts. If you really want change you must work hard to get it. Improve yourself, learn from your mistakes and keep going. I&#039;m glad you&#039;re doing stuff that you love. Nice.

@Kirsty You&#039;re right Kirsty. There is not one person in the world who is &quot;perfect&quot; no matter how much we may think there is. Constantly improve yourself, not just through word of mouth, but action of hand. Thanks for your insights.

@Oscar Hey Oscar, nice to see you here. Glad you liked my article :)

@Paul Hey Paul! Thanks for coming. It&#039;s awesome that you&#039;ve gotten the full picture of this advice. If you must change, do it with everything you&#039;ve got and leave no stone unturned. Hope to see you around the blog!

@Tess Oh stop with your praise ha ha :) 

Birds of a feather flock together (as the saying goes). Once you surround yourself with them, you become them. Thanks so much for your kind input.

@Jonathan Hey Jonathan. You&#039;re blog is looking much nicer than before (I see you&#039;ve made progress). Congrats on that.

Thinking, wishing, believing - it&#039;s all in the mind. It is your most powerful muscle (in terms of control) so use it to your advantage, not to your demise. Great thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Bakari Nice thoughts. If you really want change you must work hard to get it. Improve yourself, learn from your mistakes and keep going. I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re doing stuff that you love. Nice.</p>
<p>@Kirsty You&#8217;re right Kirsty. There is not one person in the world who is &#8220;perfect&#8221; no matter how much we may think there is. Constantly improve yourself, not just through word of mouth, but action of hand. Thanks for your insights.</p>
<p>@Oscar Hey Oscar, nice to see you here. Glad you liked my article <img src='http://hilife2b.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Paul Hey Paul! Thanks for coming. It&#8217;s awesome that you&#8217;ve gotten the full picture of this advice. If you must change, do it with everything you&#8217;ve got and leave no stone unturned. Hope to see you around the blog!</p>
<p>@Tess Oh stop with your praise ha ha <img src='http://hilife2b.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>Birds of a feather flock together (as the saying goes). Once you surround yourself with them, you become them. Thanks so much for your kind input.</p>
<p>@Jonathan Hey Jonathan. You&#8217;re blog is looking much nicer than before (I see you&#8217;ve made progress). Congrats on that.</p>
<p>Thinking, wishing, believing &#8211; it&#8217;s all in the mind. It is your most powerful muscle (in terms of control) so use it to your advantage, not to your demise. Great thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: jonathanfigaro</title>
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		<dc:creator>jonathanfigaro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 20:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Our self concept controls how we act, what we think and how we behave. If you want to change how you behave, then changing your self concept is essential. Instead of seeing yourself inside your mind as insecure, angry, confused and shy. 

Allow yourself to embrace the possibility of begin confident with a positive attitude. Don&#039;t let your negative thoughts consume your mind with negativity. Instead of learn how to think positive.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our self concept controls how we act, what we think and how we behave. If you want to change how you behave, then changing your self concept is essential. Instead of seeing yourself inside your mind as insecure, angry, confused and shy. </p>
<p>Allow yourself to embrace the possibility of begin confident with a positive attitude. Don&#8217;t let your negative thoughts consume your mind with negativity. Instead of learn how to think positive.</p>
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		<title>By: Tess  The Bold Life</title>
		<link>http://hilife2b.com/blog/construct-ideal-personality/comment-page-1#comment-562</link>
		<dc:creator>Tess  The Bold Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 16:39:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John,
First I need to congratulate you on your titles and photos. They&#039;re always amazing.

Next this is exactly what I did. I found people to emulate. That&#039;s why it&#039;s so important to choose wise, happy, and intelligent people to be around.

You are who you hang out with. I learned and transformed with many mentors.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John,<br />
First I need to congratulate you on your titles and photos. They&#8217;re always amazing.</p>
<p>Next this is exactly what I did. I found people to emulate. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so important to choose wise, happy, and intelligent people to be around.</p>
<p>You are who you hang out with. I learned and transformed with many mentors.</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Norwine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Norwine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 15:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! 

&quot;Just don’t pretend to be somebody you’re not. Incorporate parts of the person you want to become, but don’t change what makes you who you are.&quot;

That&#039;s the best line of this post - we all have it in us to become the person we want to become but it&#039;s just like anything else. It takes practice, discipline, and accountability. It also has to be a GENUINE change, not just masking what&#039;s underneath Looking forward to more posts.

Paul</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! </p>
<p>&#8220;Just don’t pretend to be somebody you’re not. Incorporate parts of the person you want to become, but don’t change what makes you who you are.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the best line of this post &#8211; we all have it in us to become the person we want to become but it&#8217;s just like anything else. It takes practice, discipline, and accountability. It also has to be a GENUINE change, not just masking what&#8217;s underneath Looking forward to more posts.</p>
<p>Paul</p>
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		<title>By: Oscar - freestyle mind</title>
		<link>http://hilife2b.com/blog/construct-ideal-personality/comment-page-1#comment-557</link>
		<dc:creator>Oscar - freestyle mind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 09:07:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article, I completely agree to study someone else and apply what you learnt. Nice blog by the way.

Oscar</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article, I completely agree to study someone else and apply what you learnt. Nice blog by the way.</p>
<p>Oscar</p>
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		<title>By: Kirsty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kirsty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 06:48:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I haven&#039;t met one person yet who is 100% completely happy with how they are - whether it be physical appearance or personality wise...

This is a great reminder that we can be the person we want to be with some hard work and change of mind set.

Love the post, John!  K</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t met one person yet who is 100% completely happy with how they are &#8211; whether it be physical appearance or personality wise&#8230;</p>
<p>This is a great reminder that we can be the person we want to be with some hard work and change of mind set.</p>
<p>Love the post, John!  K</p>
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		<title>By: Bakari</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 04:38:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really agree with one point. We often wish to evolve to a certain level but do not desire to put forth the effort required. 

That&#039;s why I try to focus on things that I truly love to do and try to separate when I am just fantasizing and when I really mean it.. Putting forth great effort for something that I really enjoy doesn&#039;t even register as something difficult.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really agree with one point. We often wish to evolve to a certain level but do not desire to put forth the effort required. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I try to focus on things that I truly love to do and try to separate when I am just fantasizing and when I really mean it.. Putting forth great effort for something that I really enjoy doesn&#8217;t even register as something difficult.</p>
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		<title>By: Chukwuma John</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chukwuma John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 04:17:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Pax I think you&#039;re missing the point. It&#039;s to improve upon you&#039;re already impressive self image. It doesn&#039;t hurt to learn a new skill or talent.

@Sharma Thanks for your input. We should learn from everyone&#039;s personalities.

@Dani Exactly! That&#039;s where I was getting at. You can be anyone you want, you just have to have the confidence and perseverance to change yourself. Oh yes, Happy Birthday!

@Srinivas I&#039;m glad you&#039;re learning from someone who is willing to teach you. I wish you all the success in the world for your ideal self and lifestyle.

@Dana Hey Dana, it&#039;s nice to read your viewpoint. It&#039;s never easy to change, but once we do, the rewards become worth the effort.

@alternaview Really great thoughts here. Most of us think that we&#039;re stuck as who we are and that we can&#039;t change that. Lots of quotes regarding &quot;You can&#039;t teach an old dog, new tricks&quot; mentality discourage us from even trying. But with a lot of belief and a lot of comment, we can be who we want to be and live how we want to live.

@Ibrahim Nice to see you here Ibrahim. Hope your learning on your recently evolved journey and I also hope the book turns out be successful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Pax I think you&#8217;re missing the point. It&#8217;s to improve upon you&#8217;re already impressive self image. It doesn&#8217;t hurt to learn a new skill or talent.</p>
<p>@Sharma Thanks for your input. We should learn from everyone&#8217;s personalities.</p>
<p>@Dani Exactly! That&#8217;s where I was getting at. You can be anyone you want, you just have to have the confidence and perseverance to change yourself. Oh yes, Happy Birthday!</p>
<p>@Srinivas I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re learning from someone who is willing to teach you. I wish you all the success in the world for your ideal self and lifestyle.</p>
<p>@Dana Hey Dana, it&#8217;s nice to read your viewpoint. It&#8217;s never easy to change, but once we do, the rewards become worth the effort.</p>
<p>@alternaview Really great thoughts here. Most of us think that we&#8217;re stuck as who we are and that we can&#8217;t change that. Lots of quotes regarding &#8220;You can&#8217;t teach an old dog, new tricks&#8221; mentality discourage us from even trying. But with a lot of belief and a lot of comment, we can be who we want to be and live how we want to live.</p>
<p>@Ibrahim Nice to see you here Ibrahim. Hope your learning on your recently evolved journey and I also hope the book turns out be successful.</p>
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